Decording is a good way of making a separation. Making separations can allow one to keep the integrity of their own system with out the effects of a drainage.
It is very easy to do but sometimes may needed to be repeated or done daily. I advise separations for those involved in healing work or Tantra as the concerns of the patient or partner can be transferred via a cord from the client to the practitioner.
This cord is in the form of a continued intention of concern and emotional attachment, often based in fear but also in the aspects of need. They are energetic structures and can be viewed that way.
I simply cut them from a viewed point of reference. But this may be difficult for those that do not see them. After a person helps another in the form of a healing whether it is in person or over distance allow the picture of that person to come into your personal view screen, so to say, behind your eyelids.
See this person inside the issues they have been treated for and or inside the desired condition they would want. As you see this person on this internal screen, blow it up! See the shards of the screen shatter into smaller and smaller pieces until it disappears entirely.
Do this as many times as you need to in order to keep yourself free of the entanglements that can come in the service of others. This is a form of energetic hygiene.
Other ways are seeing "cord" between you and the other person and cutting it. Or detaching it in a way that insures a separation. Do this intentionally and often as you work with others. It doesn't mean you don't care. It means that you respect the integrity of their space as well as your own. It is a blessing.
Whenever a thought or a mental picture comes to you of your previous associations see them on a pane of glass in your mind’s eye and shatter that glass allowing the shards to fall away. As you keep doing this you will form a separation from them that can help you into a cleaner resolution. Don’t stop forgiving or practicing the other aspects of the safeties but this can help you to speed the process of balancing the past by cleaning up the present. - blessings - chrism
Do this as many times as you need to in order to keep yourself free of the entanglements that can come in the service of others.
This is a form of energetic hygiene.