What is important to have is control of the inner dialogue and in doing so the control of the inner mind or thoughts. We all have imperfect thoughts.
The Hindu model is accurate in that they do stress the importance of having a pure heart and mind and they dedicate much to accomplish those qualities. In the practice espoused here, we incorporate the model of forgiveness. We forgive ourselves and those we interact with for the unclean attitudes and activity that can occur from us and around us. It isn't easy here in the west amidst the drive to survive and the artificial environments, the EMF, the violence and the oversexed attitudes that prevail here. But it is possible and Kundalini can happen of its own accord. This is a natural function of the human body and the Kundalini will come if it is time or the individual seeks it out, which means it is time.
So we must do our best to keep our thoughts clean and pure and to learn from the mistakes we make and to forgive ourselves and others for those mistakes. We must do our best. This doesn't cancel out the importance of the dark sides of our nature but puts us in the driver's seat of when and where and if those natures are to be expressed. - blessings - chrism
...the Kundalini will come if it is time or the individual seeks it out, which means it is time.