Very little is left to chance in regard to Kundalini and ethics. So those with whom you come in contact with will have had a choice in that contact whether or not it is a conscious choice or not. The same choice is given to you. Not everyone who comes in contact with a Kundalini awakened person receives the gift. Some do. This is a divine option that a person’s higher self is also aware of.
Kundalini can be difficult but it does not have to be. With knowledge comes the strength and flexibility. With the practice of that knowledge and the surrender to the inner guidance of the Kundalini comes the magnificent qualities of love and completion that is often the precursor to bliss that so many wish to experience.
It isn’t for the casual explorer though. Not for those who may feel that this is merely a fun experience and that as soon as they grow tired of it it will go away. Nothing is further from the truth.
Your Karma with regard to a potential loved one will be determined by the strength of your love and the honesty with which you give and receive of love. Your trust and sincerity and integrity for how you give and receive the truths of your relationship and the helpfulness that you give in regards to helping others understand your gift without frightening them can become a point of grace.
No matter how hard your experience was for you it does not determine the quality of another’s potential experience. Grace is unique for everyone and as you have experienced the journey in your own unique way so can you help and enlighten others who may wish to partake of the journey in their unique way and by having a loving contact with you or by taking advantage of your experiences and thereby possibly avoiding hurtful experiences due to your information and guidance.
Kundalini awakened people are not outside of the grace of love. Shakti doesn’t demand a life barren of loving relationship. Merely the flexibility and understanding of what is required of you in regards to the relationship will be expanded upon. Greater responsibilities in other words.
When one has awakened enlightenment has been given an opportunity to begin. So you are indeed blessed. Now you can spread those blessings far and wide and I do not write of accidental Shaktipat. I write of an expanded experience of love and with love in all of its facets! I write of the healing and brilliance that accompanies even the slightest touch of enlightenment. These are available to you to give and help others with.
Your love can be as a great beacon of light between the two of you. She/He can be awakened "if" the divine in her/him is receptive. You can then help them to take safer passage through the initial experience into a platform of strong and loving grace within the initial experience as you guide them and surrender to the guidance that will flow from within you and from within them.
They must be made aware of the situation. They must be given a chance to feel and understand without the bias of your difficult experience of what they "may" be embarking upon. If they choose this then your honesty and love will help them to ply the Kundalini waters. Your karma in this sense is not to be seen as a deterrent but rather as a gift. Their choice will guide them in interactions and as the choice includes you then so will your guidance help them to evolve.
Kundalini is the evolutionary energy in the human as Gopi Krishna has so effectively written. Let us not deprive the potential for evolution because of the fear of difficulties. Trust your guidance. Trust their guidance. Be honest and loving and give of your love continuously and in as many ways as you are able. - Yours and theirs can be a wonderful experience! - blessings to you both. – chrism
Your love can be as a great beacon of light...